The last four months sound like straight out of a thriller. Life stopped in its tracks, and we are now in the middle of the largest reality show – except it’s not a show, it’s real. Little did we know – we would have a monster at our door. Before we could even decide to open the door, the VIRUS entered and locked everything down. Our world went upside down in just a few days. The free-spirited people of the world were house-arrested in a way that their life became mere memories.
Hello I am Virus, Coronavirus!
I am your captain now!
Did we take little pleasures of life for granted?
We did. Yes, we really did. Partying, clubs, movies, long drives, in short, every piece of our “freedom.” That rhythm of my favorite night club and that super vodka shot seems like a distant memory now. I miss watching that first-day first-show with my favorite butter popcorn and coke. The romantic getaways have two elementary things missing – the romance and the getaway. 🙁 The live-in isn’t that cozy anymore.
“Those were no doubt the best days of my life” – the humming is real now. And it keeps getting louder.
So, how soon can we have our normal back? What changed for good? Let’s see.
Till we get our “normal” back, we must first learn to “live with this monster.” Yes, it sounds crazy, but “this” may very well be the new normal.
Here are the few things, the “new normal” brings to us.
Set up that Home Theater that you have been procrastinating on!
Did someone just say Netflix or Prime? Remember the movie that you always craved to watch with your friends. Just that you never had a chance to go to the movie theater together. Now is the time! Make a group chat and enjoy those little moments while watching your favorite movie. And yes… Don’t forget your popcorn. This will surely settle your nerve for a good movie hangout with friends.
A Karaoke Session!
Errr… heartaches? awww 🙁 Missing those fun moments at a music concert with your gang?
Ya.. I get you, my friend!
Missing all those fun and thrill privileges past few months? Has that made Jack a dull boy 🙁
Fret not! Make up for them. Plan an Online-Video-Karaoke night. Get all your friends/family together and sing your heart out. Let it flow, let it flow (yeah the tune rings in my head too!)
Burn that Romantic Candle, not your Wallet 🙂
If you are missing those romantic getaways because of this COVID mess.
Then, hey! We got your back. Find those scented candles and plan a candlelight dinner with your partner. (May be in the balcony or rooftop)
Make him/her feel special, too, by spending quality time with a picture-perfect evening. An amazing experience to remember and will save that big swipe on your credit card.
Get your best-scented candles out, put on some light music, get dressed (or undressed, who cares if the blinds are down). Voila, you are sitting with your partner, having one of the most memorable dinners of your lockdown life.
And also…Do not forget to take pictures for your memory lane. Dogs are your best friends; second are candles!
What’s Cooking Tonight?
No Zomato and Swiggy :’(.. Are they sobbing too? Controlling your taste bud craving like me?
Well, I literally have a local food joint on my speed dial?
Ok! then why not we shrug this gloominess off & hop on to our friend Youtube. Pick a delicious mouth-watering recipe. Pour yourself a glass of wine – put on your favorite playlist.
Oh! Ya, Get jiggy. Let the cooking tango begin. 😉
Bonus tip: Involve your partner in – you’ll earn some brownie points.
Catching up with Yaar Dost on Virtual Hangout
Ahhh! Remember, it was so much fun hanging out with friends.
Yup! Tapri pe dosto ke saath- chai ki chuskiya… hmmm but lockdown ruined that.
Hey! How about we fix that? Try a video call to hang out with friends on chai-time. Neat! 🙂
Plan a time and have your friends join. Chat with them – share a laugh – make good memories. It will refresh you and will also help you get that latest gossip hehe…
The Silver Lining
With all the chaos, anxiety, aggression, challenges, a depressing economy, how can there be a silver lining? You ask?
With all this chaos and major crisis, it gave us time to reflect. Appreciate the things that earlier we took for granted. Let’s not do that anymore. Just like you, I am just aam adami who loves to accumulate small happy moments. You know, small pleasures of life. Love to preserve memories with people I love and create new ones. I am sure that’s something you, too, can relate with.
Coping by Embracing; not Resisting.
I am confident and optimistic. Things will become normal, perhaps a “better new normal.” We will soon be meeting each other in person and freely hug our loved ones. I am hopeful; as time has taught us.
Keep reminding yourself, “This too shall pass my friend.”
Till then, let the planet heal so we can have a healthier world to live in.
Desi Web Series: Luring the Masses Through Soft Porn!
India has always been known for its culture, veil, and morals; the obscenity and vulgarity thrown at the audiences these days in the form of local web series on OTT platforms is so against our culture!
Motive – To have an enhanced subscriber base & win the TRP race.
With the increasing competition in the market, Bollywood and Hollywood directors are coming up with different content formats to get the audiences hooked.
So.. the Indian web series are not so Indian anymore! And with the growth in the viewership of Over-the-top (OTT) platforms, the Indian publishers and directors’ way of luring the masses, has turned the local web series into soft porn. Lust, swears and daring is becoming the new normal.
PEOPLE LOVE TO EMBRACE PORN?
Local web series content is just soft porn that is now aired online freely for unlimited streaming in the cyber world.
Remember the infamous controversy that dragged Ekta Kapoor into a situation where people on social media continuously bashed her, for producing content that degrades Indian culture! If the actresses have no shame, how long will it take for the teens to replicate it?
Whether it is the show ‘GandiBaat,’ or it is ‘Mastram,’ or ‘’Rasbhari,’ all of them have tried to attract more and more viewer base by showing the ‘red light areas’. These shows are not your basic serials, they are enticing people with content that widens their thought process to wild imaginations.
Cinematography loaded with a mix of nudity and vulgarity and then creating controversies around it, is the recipe for a hit these days. But what the heck is this bizzare involvement of everyone in it, without any filter? Even children are watching these. Parental controls don’t go a long way in controlling access.
These local web series having soft porn as its base, end up portraying Indians in a bad light. Most of these series have males as the casanovas and females, mostly the sex addicts are not the elites but ordinary people with religious beliefs and traditional clothing. That’s how they draw the viewers’ attention towards them – by promoting sexual fantasies!
Of all the series – Sacred Games and Mirzapur have been the most watched ones, followed by GandiBaat, the erotic theme-based production. Sacred Games received 60,979 votes with their growing demand with an average rating of 8.8, while Mirzapur received an 8.5 rating.
These sex addict audiences want real porn! People with extreme desires and fantasies crave more vulgar and realistic content and fore-plays. And these so called ‘trending’ series excel in serving all kinds of obscenity in the name of artistic freedom. Screw virtues, we just want TRP!
Spicing up the content
No matter what the series is about, the content is spiced up with nudity and sexual scenes. Political, criminal, love stories, – whatever it is, the narratives spice up their content for a wide user-base.
The Indian ‘stree’ being a form of the Goddess, is not so divine anymore! With the liberty in online content publishing and releasing of the Indian local web series featuring soft porn, the entertainment industry is leading the society towards DOOM!
Pre-screening to curb nudity and obscene content from the web series.
A petition was filed by advocate Divya Ganeshprasad Gontia in October 2018, stating the streamed web series as vulgar and obscene. The Public Interest Litigation argues that such broadcasting is an offensive act under the Indian Penal Code, the Cinematograph Act, Indecent Representation of Women (Prohibition Act) 1986, and the Information Technology Act 2000.
ShyamDewani, another advocate said that, with the freedom given, the content being delivered is getting more obscene day by day and is destroying the moral decorum of the societies. With easy accessibility, adult content is slowly poisoning children and also the under-aged teens. Teens tend to apply these in their daily lives, and land themselves in inappropriate situations. School kids are discussing ‘Mirzapur’ instead of their projects and assignments. As disgusting as you can imagine!
But who cares about the young minds & their psychology? It’s PURE BUSINESS for the platform owners and makers.
Even the adults are being over exposed to it. Expect more divorces, troubled relationships, break ups, fraudgery and extra marital affairs in the coming days, we are warning India.
Looks like the makers are running out of story ideas, creativity and film making abilities and selling sexual content comes easy! PORN sells!!! And these cheap web series are pushing people into it.
TheBossMonk throws an open challenge to all content creators – Make some wholesome family entertainers without cuss words or something so inspiring or hard hitting that completely changes people’s perspective about something or someone. Or something outrageously funny or entertaining.
If the movies that are showcased in the cinema halls have a censor board, why can’t these shows have that too?
Further, on the PIL argument, the court gave orders that no national or international content should be published on the platforms directly. The high court also directed the concerned ministries for the same. Despite the directives of the court, the guidelines and censorship is not being followed.
From 2018 to 2020, and still, obscene content is being published randomly and being bombarded, spoiling and distorting the mentalities of the audience.
WHAT A SHADOWY WORLD WE LIVE IN?
It’s really upsetting to see these web series getting immense popularity and ratings. People consuming such content are sole perverts. But all said and done, some level of censorship by the govt. or film division, based on common decency, is needed to regulate the content. Soft porn merging with web series needs to be stopped and looked at!
High Population of India: An Asset or a Liability?
We worry about ‘Population Explosion’. To the extent that some ‘intellectuals’ even propose to encourage same sex marriage to control it. Rib tickling ideas people get and out of nowhere.
Jokes apart, we believe that increasing population is not that much of a big deal if as a nation we know how to manage it.
Mahesh lives in the rural part of India. He works as a farmer and fends for his family through agricultural income. He has six kids who live in a cramped house and eat whatever their father produces on the farm. The whole society looks at Mahesh in disdain and calls him stupid for contributing to the elephantine Indian population. The government officials also teach him the importance of having a small family. Well, he can’t really help it anymore, can he? Can he let his kids vanish into thin air? This is the harsh reality of India.
Point to be noted that the rising Indian population is connoted as a liability, but the Chinese population is the biggest asset for their country?
Countries are termed as developed or underdeveloped or developing. This highly depends upon the people who are living there. You can make a name for your country or sit at home and criticize it for being the way it is.
For an underdeveloped country like India, it is goddamn difficult to manage population growth as most of the people are illiterate. This leads to the economic crisis due wasted job opportunities. Agriculture & farming provides employment to around 60% of the Indian population. But the condition of farmers is still deplorable.
However, in a developing country like China, the country’s citizenry has proved to be an asset. Yes! An asset as it means more human resources that would contribute towards the development and innovation.
Can the Indian population replicate better opportunities than China?
In terms of population, India stands 2nd after China,, with a population of about 135.26 crores. It is to be noted that we consider our population a liability, which is why the whole globe pitifully looks at us. If Indians start upgrading their skills and become educated, better days aren’t far away!
And if a nation like China, which has the highest population, can transform its human resource into an asset, why can’t the Indians do that?
With the increased digitization due to COVID-19 pandemic, skilled and talented human resources are what every country requires for its technological and software growth. This justifies how skilled human resources are, an asset for any country.
On Independence Day, Prime Minister Narendra Modi himself expressed concern about population explosion and how handling this challenge will be a mammoth task. This is how you slay it Mr. PM:
More than 50% of the Indian population is below the age of 25. Every year, India produces 25% of the world’s engineers.
The Boss Monk ponders why these intelligent and skilled individuals are called liability and not an asset?
More people also means mixed talent. It just needs to be maneuvered in the right direction and manner.
So the answer lies in training, education, infrastructure and economic policies. It’s not the population rather the illiterate population that is a burden. Focus has to be on creating job opportunities by opening up the markets and becoming more global. Instead of just luring people for vote banks.
No one ever wonders why the best brains of India have shifted their base to other countries. We are not just talking about Satya Nadella or Sundar Pichai but even common engineers, doctors migrate to foreign lands the moment they get an opportunity. And that’s mainly because the current political, professional and business environments, rip through their emotional levels and kill creativity along the way.
India needs to provide fertile grounds to nurture its people and avoid brain-drain.
The opportunities are on the rise, if only…
With the Galwan clash, Uyghur genocides, and the COVID pandemic, the dragon is no more in any nation’s good books. Foreign companies are shifting their base to India because of the demographic qualities it offers.
Multinationals like Google and Facebook have promised to invest about billions of dollars into the Indian markets. With such a huge amount of money backed by a skilled workforce, India can be a golden bird again.
With various investments pouring in and a surge in India’s unicorns, training, education and the right kind of environment can make India the next Silicon Valley.
That’s how it can convert the population liability into a promising asset.
Or they can just let this opportunity slip through and succumb to the dark hole of being a liability.
I Live Alone, Breathe Fire And Take Care of My Own Fucking Self
Stereotypically, women are expected to live a sheltered life with other people and there is a huge stigma around women to live alone. Many people in a woman’s life will stop her from living alone, majorly blaming the safety issue. Our society is conditioned in a way that people are scared of seeing women progress and become more independent and live freely.
Women are supposed to find a partner, a companion to depend upon. It makes women’s life supposedly happier. Men are glorified for being the lone wolf who protects everyone. But who made these norms?
Society has been brainwashed with the absurd concept of women being the weaker gender. It has made us believe that women can’t stand alone, women can’t travel alone, they can’t go out late at night and they might be making millions but they can’t live alone.
Who will break this stigma?
Who will change this concept?
Aren’t you the one who can take the stand for millions of women who are subjected to this philosophy?
If you ever felt that you won’t be able to live alone, think again. We have 6 reasons to believe that women would enjoy and benefit more in living alone at least once in their life:
1. You are the role model and stereotype breaker
When you start living alone, you have already become a rebel for society. But guess what? You are also the hero for a million women out there who are suppressed in their houses. The society and influencers often talk about independent women, but do they preach it in reality? Maybe yes, maybe no. But remember that now you have become the real idol and influencer for many! Many women have broken down the stereotypes and have walked over the thought process of the age-old generations.
2. The journey of self-love
When you start living alone, you unconsciously start a journey of self- discovery, and self- love. Since you are responsible for everything around the house and your own survival and safety, you invest your time wisely and treat yourself better. Many women believe that they need the help of other people, mostly men, to do laborious work around the house. But as you become more self- sufficient, you learn to do things on your own. You feel accomplished and proud of the living space you have created for yourself. You take care of yourself and do things out of your comfort zone like killing a cockroach or sleeping alone under a roof. You feel independent and happier with the person you have become.
3. You start enjoying your own company
In the beginning, we agree that not every woman would be comfortable living alone. In fact, you will feel lonely sometimes. You would find the silence too loud and be scared of every little sound.
But little by little, when you get accustomed to the living space you have, as you customize it to your own preferences, you will feel at home. You will start looking forward to going home and enjoy doing chores alone. You won’t have to follow a schedule around the house in accordance with other residents. There are no deadlines for coming back home. Do what you please.
4. You become more self- sufficient
Since you are living alone, you are responsible for everything. You don’t have a guardian to depend on for food, laundry, or grocery. Even though you can have a helper to help you with chores around the house, you will be responsible for making that choice. Who to hire as a helper, plumber, etc. You will have to maintain a house budget and focus on how to spend money. Overall, your management skills will increase and you will become a person with better judgment skills.
5. You become more productive
According to recent studies, women who live alone are more professionally successful.
Since you will live alone, you will also have a lot of time in your hand. Even if you invite people at home or come late at night, you would be in control. Due to COVID-19, most of us are working from home and this is going to be the trend for a couple of months at least.
Therefore, figuratively speaking you still have a lot of time to invest in other things. And who hasn’t ever said, “I will do this if I had more time”? We are sure that even you have said that for something in your life at some point in time. So if women live alone, they tend to find other activities they can dedicate themselves to. From painting, reading more books, cooking, yoga, joining a class, or even learning a new course or language, you can do it all.
6. You start appreciating the people in your life
Ever since you start living alone and do things around the house, you realize that daily chores are harder than they look. Even cooking three meals daily is tough, you start missing your mother or friends who used to cook for you. You appreciate their efforts and stop complaining like before. You become a thankful person, check on people often and put efforts in maintaining your relationships. This is also because women who live alone tend to be happier than before. When a person is happy it’s natural for them to share their happiness and spread it. You learn and realize the importance of the people who love and appreciate you.
So what is stopping you from living alone? Don’t let other people delude you. Be the woman who can make a change.
The Boss Monk feels that every woman should experience full independence and have an option to live life freely on her own terms. Don’t let society stop you from being the real boss!